20. What are the biggest things you’ve learned in life to date?

• A real martini is made with gin, not vodka.  I blame James Bond for this. 
• Your friends are way more understanding than you think of your faults. Chances are they probably know a lot more than you think despite your best attempts to hide your problems.
• I should have started saving for my future much earlier than I did.  That said, it's also never too late to start. 
• Not to be so hard on myself. 
• Always take lunch. Working without a break just burns you out. You need to take a break sometimes to refresh yourself and be more productive.  
• There's nothing wrong with wanting to spend time alone. It  doesn't make you weird and antisocial. 
• There's nothing wrong with doing something nice for yourself. It doesn't make you selfish. 
• Try new things, but also don't feel bad with going back to things you know that comfort you. 
• You can't change other people. And you can't take on their problems for them. There's a point where you just have to let that go and live your own life.
• My sense of humor has been the one thing that has gotten me through some of my worst times. That and Zumba. 
• There is only way to order a steak. Rare. Any other way is wrong. Very, very wrong.   
• Allow yourself to be happy about small things.